Wednesday, September 25, 2013

Crazy, crazy life!

Hey, it's Raquel! Remember me? 

Life in general has been super busy over the spring and summer months. It hasn't slowed down at all either now that I've started my third year of college (and I don't even have an associates degree yet, for shame!) and I'm working so many hours a week. In fact, I'm only writing this because I'm procrastinating homework.









These are some of our wedding photos. Which is also why I've neglected updating my blog. Wedding planning was seriously stressful. But everything turned out beautiful! 


Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Address Overload

Today I have spent the day putting wedding announcements in envelopes and putting addresses on said envelopes. A few things I learned while getting lost in envelopes:

  • I'm only going to know a handful of people at my wedding
  • I have relatives in Washington State (who knew?)
  • I have seriously procrastinated sending out invites. Here we are, ten minutes away from May 1st (I'm getting married May 24th) and no announcements have been sent. Oops.
  • My family knows more people than I initially thought
  • And finally, sending out invites has turned this whole wedding thing into the real deal.


Monday, April 29, 2013

Finals are over!

 Last week, my finals came to an end. And I am 99.99% sure I passed Math 1050 with at least a B which means...no more math! By this time next year, I should have my associates degree...which should have taken me two years to get but it will actually be three. 
Even though finals are over, my life hasn't slowed down. It's time to move out of my student apartment. It's very bittersweet. I'm excited to spend a little less than a month with my family before I get married and I'm looking forward to having my own room.
 However, my roommates have become my very best friends. We have so many inside jokes! A couple of my roommates will be serving missions for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints by the end of the summer. I'm so excited for them but I'll miss them like crazy. 

And the wedding planning? I'm pretty sure Ryan and I should have eloped...but things are finally coming together. 








Sunday, February 3, 2013

Ahem...it's been awhile

Tonight I decided to catch up on a little blog reading and while I was reading I realized I hadn't updated my blog for a really long time. And I mean really long. Life just became so busy (and it hasn't slowed down yet).
So I got engaged...crazy, I know.


So crazy in fact that my own cousin didn't believe me! I had to email her pictures to prove it. But the thing is is I've known this guy for four years now.
He proposed right before Christmas (hence all the lights in the background). I was my usual stubborn self and wanted to go look at the lights everywhere except where our family was hiding and waiting to take pictures. The poor guy, I dragged him around everywhere. We finally got to where he wanted to be and he said, "I want to show you something." Which is when he got down on one knee and popped the question. And I said, "Are you serious?" Actually I said it twice before I said yes. Then our families popped out, lots of pictures were taken, and lots of cheesecake from the Cheesecake Factory was eaten. 
The date you may ask?
June 8th, 2013. 
Colors?
Peach, blush, cream, pearls, lace...and antique blue mason jars with lots and lots of flowers.

Not only did I get engaged, but I decided what I want to do with my education. For now, I want to get an associates degree with my general education. For most people, it takes two years to get an associates but I'm a little behind. I'm nearing the end of my second year of college with no degree. But hey, at least I know what I want to get now. 
A lot of people are telling me "settling" for an associates degree isn't a good idea and I shouldn't depend on my future husband's education/job. But what is the point of spending thousands of dollars on classes to get a major I don't even want? And any degree is better than no degree. School is expensive and my fiance (still a little weird referring to him as a fiance) wants to be an engineer which takes a lot of schooling. So the plan is I get my degree then start working full time to get him through school. 
Which is fine by me because I am so done with school. I just want to read a book for fun and not because I have to write a paper.

With all these changes and huge decisions in my life right now, I'm just hoping I come out in one piece. Wish me luck!

Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Thoughts

I'm sure there are a million posts today about September 11. However, I feel like adding my own thoughts about this day.
I was eight, almost nine-years-old when the twin towers fell. My mom got me out of bed late for school because she was watching the news, like millions of other people across the nation and around the world. I remember not understanding what was happening, I was so little. But then I watched the second airplane fly into the building and I understood that people were dying. I asked my mom what was falling out of the windows and she replied, "People."
Even though this event happened across the country, it feels as if it happened right in my backyard. My country is so united that something like this affects all of us. I love that we stand together, political views, religious views, and other differences don't matter for those moments. We truly became The United States of America that day. 
Today, at my university, we had a guest speaker come talk to us. His name is Joe Torrillo, who was a firefighter September 11, 2001. He told his incredible story and it is something I will never forget.

That day, he was supposed to be at a conference to introduce a new toy to the world:  A New York firefighter action figure. On his way, he saw the building burn and he made the decision to go to the fire house instead of his conference. He didn't have his fire gear so he used another firefighter's gear who was off duty that day.
Because he went to school and learned about engineering, he knew that the building would soon collapse and his main goal was to get as many people out of the building as possible. Then the South Tower started collapsing. He said the air pressure began to build and it made his helmet fly off his head and fly in front of him. The pressure began to build even more and he was lifted off the ground.
A steel beam hit him in the back of his head, breaking his skull. He also had a broken arm and ribs. He continued to say that everything went completely black, "Blacker than midnight." 
In the dark, he heard people yelling "Help me, help me" and then the yells turned to whimpers and then silence. He realized that the people around him had died.
What stood out to me most at this point was he said he didn't want to die bitter. He prayed to God and said he wouldn't have wanted a different job, he was glad for what he had been given. He didn't say, why me? but he was grateful for what he had been given and asked that his family would be alright.
Later, they uncovered him and put him on the boat. While on the deck, the North Tower collapsed. People on the boat abandoned the boat because of the glass flying through the air. Joe Torrillo got himself off the stretcher and into the Engine Room of the boat where he was buried a second time, later to be found again.
Because he had borrowed someone else's gear, the people at the hospital thought he was a different man. Calls were made to Joe Torrillo's family, telling them he was missing. 
At the end of his speech, he told us that education will be the most important thing we ever get in our lives. It can't be stolen or borrowed and because of his education, he knew the towers would fall and was able to save hundreds of lives that day. 
Today I learned that even in our darkest moments, we can find things to to be grateful for. During hard times, we don't have to ask God why it happened to you but we can be grateful for what we have been given. And you don't have to wear a uniform to be a hero.
September 11 was such a horrible day but I hope we can remember how we were united and always stand together, one Nation, under God.

Monday, August 13, 2012

My summer adventures

Ready for picture overload? I have finally gotten around to putting pictures on my computer of my summer adventures. A few weeks ago, I took a trip to an amusement park.
This is a ride called The Rocket. You slowly rise to the top (which is insanely high) and then you drop. And you scream. And it is terrifyingly awesome.

I'm the one covering my head with a white looking thing. This is Rattlesnake Rapids. You get wet.
My small hometown does fireworks every August. We have the best fireworks, just saying. We were so close to the fireworks as well. You could see the fireworks being shot into the air, leaving bright orange gold cinders falling to the ground. We even got hit by ash and small pieces of firework. How much closer can you get?




And finally, my favorite pictures. My friend, Emily, is serving a mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. She will be serving for a year and a half in Russia! I am so proud of her! Before our missionaries leave, we have farewells. They talk in one of our church meetings and after church, we usually eat food and gather together as friends and family to support them. 
These are my wonderful friends! Our soon-to-be missionary is in the middle, wearing the purple dress. 

Me and Emily! 
My summer adventures are coming to a close. Fall semester begins in two weeks from today. I move into my apartment next Wednesday (and I now know who my roommates are...well, I at least know their names) and the days are slowly beginning to be shorter. Who knows what this next year will bring?

Thursday, August 9, 2012

You have no new messages

I have decided I'm not very good at waiting.
If I'm waiting for a phone call, I can't leave my phone anywhere and it becomes an obsession.
If I'm waiting for someone to come, I pace around the front windows and open the door once or twice.
But today, I'm waiting for an email.
Since the end of July I've been waiting for an email, and yesterday, I got one. This email told me the real email I'm waiting for will come today. 
This email will tell me the time I can get my key to my apartment on August 22. It will also tell me who my roommates are. 
I am so nervous to find out who these girls are, nervously excited. 
But until I get this email, I will be nervously waiting until my email account says, "You have one new message."